“Ten minutes with a genuine friend is better than years spent with anyone less.” – Crystal Woods
We all may have a genuine friend who will always tell us the truth no matter what happens later. And that is the person who is brutally honest with us and gives us the tough love we need to make it through the day. Blunt, according to the dictionary means, “uncompromisingly forthright”. Have you wondered why do we all have that one blunt friend? Well, it is said by the sociology that people who are blind actually make the best kinds of friends in a very short time.
HERE ARE 5 REASONS WHY BLUNT PEOPLE MAKE THE BEST FRIENDS
THEY TELL IT LIKE IT IS
They will be very honest with you. They will always tell you the truth, even when you don’t want to hear it. Blunt friends will say the truth because they want the other person to deal with the very root of the situation. They will never keep you in dark.
You must know that your blunt friend is doing this because they are not cured; , but they want to be honest with you and their tough love about telling someone exactly what they want to say, they won’t matter if you like to hear or not, they won’t stop. They will never spare your feelings. You can trust your blunt friend always, no matter what they say, it’s going to be the truth.
YOU’LL ALWAYS KNOW THEY WANT TO BE YOUR FRIEND
Blunt friends will always know what they want and what they don’t want. They will never pretend to be friends if they don’t want to. They will never lie about how they will feel. They will tell you straight if they like you or not. Once they like you they will never ever second guess how they feel. They will love to be your friend. And they will make sure that the friendship will be strong and long-lasting.
THEY PUSH YOU TO BE BETTER
When it comes to other people’s shortcomings, most people find it hard to tell their friends what needs improving. This is usually due to a desire not to cause a rift in the friendship, or a desire not to hurt the other person’s feelings. Blunt people don’t have these same hang-ups. A blunt person is going to tell you exactly what you need to do to better yourself, and you’ll know that they mean it. Whenever you have friends like this you will have a completely changed lifestyle. You will become more positive, driven and focused on your priorities. You will live to spend your time with these people will honest feedback and criticism.
THEY’RE NOT AFRAID TO APOLOGIZE
Some people don’t like to admit when they are wrong, but for blunt people, it’s not an issue, they will admit anything happened by them. It’s very easy for them. You will never have a conflict between your blunt friend and yourself, which we find mostly in other relationships. They will never be afraid to apologize.
THEY WON’T LET YOU GET HARMED
A blunt friend doesn’t put up with any kind of wrongdoings against themselves or against their friends. Because they’re not afraid to say what they really want to say and they will always mean what they say. A blunt person will be always there for you whenever you need them. They’re going to be by your side and have your back, especially when you’re dealing with a stressful situation. If other people try to talk behind your back, your blunt friend is going to be the first one to step into the ring for you and will argue for you. They make the best friends because they’re not afraid to fight for their loved ones.