We get stuck in our life and think that we cannot get out of it. We tend to accept and settle for the things and think they are right and safe. As we are afraid to take a leap of faith to the unknown we fear changes.
We are afraid to start new things that we are willing to sacrifice our happiness for the feeling of familiarity and safety by leaving everything behind. Even when we should move, we stay.
If you are not happy with your life– MOVE.
You are not a tree.
If you are not happy with your job – QUIT.
Don’t hesitate to go on to find another one that will make you happy if your job is draining you mentally, physically, or emotionally, and give you the feeling like you don’t have room for growing and learning new things. Your happiness is the most important thing rather than staying in the job just because of bills you have to pay.
If you are not happy being around your friends – LEAVE.
Just leave them, if your friends are not influencing you positively and only bringing you down and suck your energy. You are the one who have to take care of yourself and protect yourself from toxic influences around you. Be with people who have the same frequency as you. You are not meant for mediocre things or mediocre people.
If you are not happy with your relationship – END IT.
There are many people on this Earth to have a romantic relationship. People should understand that a relationship not only having dinner dates, sweet texts, kisses and hugs. A true relationship can help you to become the best version of yourself. You just have to move on and end the relationship, if your partner is making you feel sad and brings toxicity and heartache into your life.
If you are not happy living in your city – MOVE.
Don’t be afraid to move to another city just because you fear of the unknown. You should take risks in life to be happy. Remember that, all the great things in life happen outside of your comfort zone. Be challenging and go and experience life in a new city. A true home is where you are happy, not the place where you are safe.
Finally, if you are not happy with how you view your life – CHANGE YOUR PERSPECTIVE.
You should not stress over things that you are unable to change. You are the one who can change yourself and the way you see things. Life is as simple and as complicated as that.
The most important thing is your happiness. Make the change today if you are not happy.
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