Being an over-thinker is not a suitable thing for anyone. You always take peoples opinion seriously and also try to understand why they did they say it. As you are a person with a sensitive heart and you are thinking too much about all these stuff will definitely drive you crazy because you are trying to analyze everything without sounding insane to others.
There is another harsh truth about being a sensitive over-thinker. You always try to see the world in black and white, where the world is filled with colors. You won’t have half feelings, these people will do it or won’t do it or hate or love. They will never stuck in the middle of black and white thinking this might be grey. They will want to feel completely happy or completely devastated.
You may love immensely to your partner, but sometimes you might be ‘too much’ for some people, like, too analyzing, too emotional, too nervous and also too romantic. You’re doing things too much means you are truly in love with that person. And that will make you sad because loving too much is an issue and everyone is not going to like us. When people don’t accept you the way you are, you start to second guess about yourself, you think that you don’t belong.
Another common issue with insensitive over-thinkers is that they have an inner struggle within themselves to be present in life, but they are really not connected with the people or the nature. That happens normally because you try to be isolated from everything.
These are the people who are craving for love, they really want to be loved by someone, but they don’t like to put themselves out there much. Their hearts are fragile it can break at any time. They are so hopeful. And when they don’t get the affection or love they were looking for, it breaks them apart. Then they shut themselves and take time to heal, even if it wasn’t anything major.
They want to find reasons for everything, such as the pain they are getting from the heartbreak and behind it, the losses and all the lessons they have learned. They can’t stay without finding answers for all the questions they have.
They have a special relationship with the universe. Sometimes they feel deeply connected like their bond is so strong and powerful, but sometimes they feel so distant like they don’t understand the world anymore. It often feels like it’s them against the universe and that’s a battle they can’t figure out how to win.
It is possible to suffer from insomnia as you are an over-thinker with a sensitive heart. Your bed is the place where your worst thought and fears haunt you all at once. It’s the moment you start questioning yourself.
However, over –thinkers are also artistic, creative and also unique. These people have an extra ordinary way of thinking. This may not be loved by everyone. They have high emotional intelligence, and that’s why all their relationships may be romantic or not, but is deep and sincere.